Can You Hear Me Over the Children, Lord?

New Year, New Me

2012-01-03T08:38:00.001-05:00

Okay, it is finally 2012. I don't really make resolutions, mainly because I make lofty ones that are difficult to attain.
This year is different. My only goal is to simplify my life and tell people "no" more. I am going to have more time for the important things.

See, I think I am Wonder Woman...that I can do it all, and do it well. (Insert laugh here) Well, surprise, I am not WW. So, I am choosing the most important things to me (sign classes, sign choir, my kids and hubby) and doing them. I now have more time for ministry opportunities and family things as they come up. My daughter wants to take gymnastics, so now I will have time to take her.
So, if you hear me say no, I can't....then know I am sticking to my resolution this year.

I do have many cool things to share, but let's take it one day at a time. Now, go back and look at your list of resolutions this year, and take off the ones you won't do..........and see how you can simplify too. Go think about that.............

Why Do We Have Christmas

2011-12-21T18:31:00.000-05:00

I love Christmas for many reasons, not all of which are religious. I love giving gifts, I love baking, I love decorating the house with lights and many trees. But, I also love how people are more generous this time of year. People are nicer in general.

I make sure to remind my children that if Jesus had not been willing to die for us, He never would have been born. God loved enough that he sacrificed His only Son. I have a son. Honestly, I don't know that I could let him die to save others. Of course, Jesus rose and is alive in Heaven. Maybe that would make it a smidge easier. But to have to watch your son die and beg for you, and you turn your back. Wow. That is enough to make any parent say "turn the channel".

I am grateful for Mary and Joseph who were obedient. If they were not, would God have had to find another way?

As you sing songs like Silent Night and Away In a Manger, think about the words and what they truly mean.................and Merry Christmas.

What America Learned by 9/11

2011-11-01T14:42:00.002-04:00

Everyone in the United States remembers what they were doing when the terrorists attacked those 4 planes. Everyone remembers seeing the towers fall, and hearing about the brave passengers who went down in that Pennsylvania field to save others. All of us get chills when we really think about it. It makes us sad when our children ask us why we are in a war and we have to tell them.

America learned so much from that day. First, we learned just how brave we as Americans truly are. It started with the passengers who knew they were going to die anyway, so they went down fighting. Then, with the emergency personnel who rushed into those towers and the pentagon to try to get people out. Lastly, seeing how brave the people inside the buildings were trying to help the disabled get out, and dying in the process. American loyalty is strong. We Americans can do what needs to be done, in any situation. We are the land of the free and home of the brave.

America learned that our world is not the same as it was when we were children in the 1970’s. People now have the technology to do lots of damage from very far away. They can use satellites to keep tabs on us from the other side of the globe. They have missiles that can be programmed for a target that will NOT miss. Most importantly, there is hate like there has never been before.

America learned that we have never truly appreciated our military like we have since 9/11. We have become true patriots. When I see anyone in uniform, I always say thank you to them. I want them to know how much their job means to us. We sleep peacefully at night because they help protect our world. That has nothing to do with whether you agree with the war or not. You should support their efforts anyway. They have to be there away from their spouses and kids. They need our love and support. Shame on you if you think otherwise.

The last thing we have learned is that as Americans, we are the most hated and the most admired county in the world. Everyone wants something from us when they are in trouble. But, when they are fine, they hate us for our freedoms and our prosperity. People are afraid of what they don’t understand.

9/11 will go down as one of the darkest days in history, right along side with Pearl Harbor. The good thing is, we are stronger and more united than our states have ever been.

Why Jesus Was a Conservative

2011-11-01T14:40:00.002-04:00

Jesus was one tough dude. He did not accept any excuses forfailure. He did not put up with any junk from his buddies or anyone else, andhe would always call them out on it.

This is how I know Jesus was a conservative. He did not giveout handouts everyday and then not expect people to take responsibility forthemselves. As a matter of fact, the “learn to do it yourself” theme waseverywhere in Jesus’ teachings. This is definitely NOT a Democrat way of thinking.Democrats prefer the people to be dependant, and helpless. Jesus gave power tothe people.

First, Jesus knew He would not be on the earth long. He toldHis disciples to learn to do what He could do. That way, Jesus knew when He wasgone; His disciples could carry on the ministry. Jesus was not a dictatorwanting all the power for Himself. He knew that teaching others His abilitieswas the only way. Democrats usually want the people to be ignorant, to dependon them for money and benefits, and don’t want them to learn to think forthemselves.

Jesus expected the people to learn from their mistakes andnot make them again. When Jesus healed people, he always told them He forgavethem, but before they left, He told them to go and sin no more. THAT is achange. Not more of the same behavior. He let them know they are responsiblefor their own actions. Liberals do not take responsibility for any of theiractions. They like to blame the results of their own bad decisions on theconservatives. ( Look at the $700 billion bailout, for example. ThanksPresident Carter and President Clinton). Democrats are also telling the peoplethat it is not their fault they cannot get a good paying job. The Democrats say“so what” you dropped out of high school, “so what” you can’t read well enoughto fill out a job application, “so what” you wear flip flops and a halter topto a job interview. It is the rich business owner’s fault for your plight. Giveme a break!! The Bible says in 2Thessalonians, if a man does not work, he does not eat. Jesus did NOT believein the welfare program. Also, there is the old adage: Give a man a fish, feedhim for a day. Teach a man to fish, feed him for a lifetime. Now, which onereminds you of liberals?

Suffice it to say, Jesus would stand for the side of truthno matter what party affiliate was attached to it. However, we all know whichparty wants people to NOT be responsible for themselves and which party wantspeople to know they can create their own destiny. I said all this to say again,in my humble opinion, Jesus was a conservative.

2011-10-20T14:43:00.001-04:00

My family just got back from a vacation at.......(drum roll, please) Colonial Williamsburg. I love, love, love history. This was truly a dream vacation for me....and I just let my family come along. The kids had fun, and the hubster had fun too.

We stayed at a hotel that is owned by Colonial Williamsburg (CW) so there is a shuttle bus that runs to the hotel. We were 5 minutes from the place. The hotel had free breakfast buffet and a free 18-hole putt-putt golf course (that was lit also, if you wanted to play after dark).

At the end of CW, there is a market place that consists of modern shops and restaurants...including a college bookstore. Beyond that, is William and Mary College...which is gorgeous. Lots of brick sidewalks, brick buildings, and trees. It has the oldest college building in the USA on campus.

IF you have never been, you must go. Feel free to email me for details on prices and where we stayed. We were across the parking lot from the CW Visitors Center, so it was very convenient.

We stopped at the Visitor's Center across the VA state line. The people working told us about some ferry ride we could take to Historic Jamestown..which is 15 minutes from CW. The ferry was out of Surry, VA....so we did that. The kids loved the ferry. On the way home, we came back that way. We spent 9 miles on I-295 before we got off at Hopewell, Va. From there, we went thru beautiful countryside to Surry.
This is a terrific vacation, if you can forget all the fast paced junk of Myrtle Beach. Vacations should be away from all the technology, and TV..it should be family time. Now, go think about that.....

My Friend's New Book

2011-10-14T08:27:00.002-04:00

One of my besties has written a book, and it has been published. Her book release date is November 4, 2011. (It is called Twinkle, Twinkle Christmas Star by Deanna Polito-Laughinghouse) I am so excited. She and I have been working on her press releases to promote it, plus brainstorming other out of the box ideas. We have come up with some real good ones, I think.

She humbled me by saying no one has ever helped her like this before. My response was that 1-I love her, and that is what friends do, and 2-the book is like my God child, I have been there helping her from the beginning.

True friendship is wanting the other person to succeed and do well, and being joyful with them....honestly. There is no jealousy in true friendship. Go think about that......

Remembering my friend....

2011-08-02T13:15:00.000-04:00

A dear lady passed away last Wednesday night. She is now with Jesus. I don't think we could talk her into coming back now even if we wanted to.
I have been reflecting on how she touched my life and the life of my children. She will be missed truly.

It just reminds me how short a time we have on this earth....so what are you doing with yours? Go think about that.....

Recipes for Healthier Living

2011-06-26T13:47:00.000-04:00

Hello.
One of my friends is having open heart surgery on Thursday. That prompted me to remember 2 years ago when my Mom went thru the same thing. I had to find sodium free recipes and we learned to healthen up stuff we already made.
It was enlightening to say the least. Look at the amount of sodium in items next time you go to the grocery store......it will scare the mess out of ya.

I have discovered a homemade taco seasoning. Yum. I have made homemade broccoli soup, potato soup, chicken noodle soup...and tomorrow will make tomato. Oh, also, tomorrow I am making homemade pimento cheese. I'll let you know how it tastes.....

Sad News...

2011-06-15T15:26:00.000-04:00

Well, a friend of mine told me her and her hubby were seperating. Wow, I was heart broken. Still am. For both of them.

Coming from a divorced home and growing up like that, I am NOT an advocate of divorce. If you need to seperate and start dating again while you counsel with your church pastor..that I am an advocate of.
So, I told her that behind her back I would be praying for reconciliation. Which, technically is NOT behind her back, since I told her to her face I would do it. LOL..funny.

I notice that nowadays (sounds old, huh?) more people spend more time on a WEDDING than a MARRIAGE. The wedding lasts a few hours, a marriage is the rest of your life. If Hollywood would understand this, they would be much happier.

This is NOT a bash of my friend. Her news just got my wheels turning. I got to thinking of the good times in my marriage of 16 years and the bad times. No one ever said...not even God....that marriage would always be fun.Never did He say it would ever be easy Nor did He say I would be walking in bliss every moment and never want to smack my beloved. LOLOLOL....or that I would not drive my hubby crazy.

So, my advice is many fold. One, do not let the devil win. Cast him out of your marriage and start speaking the Word over it. Second , in the immortal words of Jim Valvano: never, never, ever give up.
Now. go think about that....

I't's not my fault.....

2011-06-08T13:12:00.000-04:00

If I hear one more person say "It wasn't my fault," I just may take off my shoe and pummel them.
Newsflash people: no one controls you but YOU. No one makes you get angry or overreact. No one makes you sit on your bedonkadonk and do nothing either. Everything you do or do not do in life, is your own choice.....yes, it is!
Don't tell me how bad your childhood was, or how mean someone has been to you...and don't tell me all the things wrong in your life. No, you cannot control what someone else does to you, but you can control how you react to it, and what YOU do next.
When you meet someone on the street, you have no idea what kind of life they have had. You are not the only one with problems. But, you may be the only one that can't get over it.
(OK, I warned you that the faint hearted need not read this. This is tough love here, and if you get upset or cry easily, then move along quickly)
When Jesus met people who had awful pasts, what did He do? I'll tell you...He forgave them, then told them to "go and sin so more." ......translation: I have forgiven you. Now, go forgive yourself, forget about all of your past, don't repeat the stupid stuff....and have a good life.
I know, it is too simple. I picture Jesus giving people the Gibbs head slap, and telling em to go on and stop being stupid.
Which means do not drag all your baggage around. Leave it at the feet of Jesus and WALK AWAY. How many times when you meet a stranger in line or something, do they tell you all about how much medicine they take, and all their ailments, and what's wrong with their family? That person wears their junk around like a badge of honor. Puh-leeze!!!

But, this is not the real reason for my rant. Everyone needs to be more considerate of others...stop being so needy that you are a drain on your friends and push them away. If someone does something nice for you, do something nice back. Don't always NEED something. Be a giver too.
If you go to a group like a Bible Study, and take your kids, offer to help watch them once a month. Do not make the same people have to miss the discussion cause you are too selfish to help out. Be a blessing to others. If you go to an event where you know there will be food, then take some to help out. And help clean up too. Do what you can when you can. Eventually it will be your turn.
If we are all takers, then eventually the givers will stop giving. Who will you abuse then?
There are times when you don't call a sitter, you do it yourself. There are times when you miss the bible study cause it is your turn to watch the little kids. If you don't, pretty soon there won't be a bible study....and you will have the nerve to wonder why? Duh.
In this great country where everyone wants to come and live...we have freedom. Freedom to go to school and get an education. Freedom to work more than one job to make more money. Freedom to start our own business and banks who will lend us money to do it. Heck, the government gives out money to help poor people while they look for a job.
So, you may not control that you grew up poor and on welfare, but you can control whether or not you get a job, and go to Wake Tech at night to get a degree so YOU don't live on welfare.
Think about all that....

Summer

2011-06-07T08:35:00.000-04:00

Okay, only bright colors will do for a summer post. My children will be out of school soon. Friday is their last day. I soooo need a break. I will say for a "stay at home mom", I have never been so busy. When I worked full time I was never this busy. My hat is off to mom's who work full time out of the home, and then still take care of their family at night. Kudos!!

As you know, God is always telling me stuff, and I try to do it. Pretty simple. Well, how many of us just do what God says, when He says to do it, with no complaining, balking, or questions? Do you wonder why things may not be going just how you think they should? Could it be you have an obedience issue? God is our Father, and we are His children. When He speaks, He expects us to trust Him, listen, and obey. NOT HARD!
It is like God is at the top of a large hill. We can only see so far up it, and He can see far beyond it due to His vantage point. We have to trust that since He knows what is over the hill, He will only help us to stay safe. He won't tell us anything that will hurt us, or be bad for us. So why do we constantly question Him?
Just a heads up.....my next post will be on personal responsibility and using others because you are lazy or selfish. Be forewarned...the weak hearted need not read it. It's gonna sting. Now, back to my point....listen to God, say "okay Lord", then (like NIke) just do it. See how amazing God can make your life when you obey. Now, go think about that.....

Kicking it up a Notch...

2011-05-12T15:02:00.000-04:00

God has been dealing with me about our sign choir. There are things I am certain we need to do, and there are things I am not sure how to accomplish.

God and I have been brainstorming, and I will keep praying until I know for sure what to do about some things.

I know we need more credability...both in our church and in the community. To achieve this, I am going to enter us into some competitions and see if we can win some awards. That would help us get in the door of some places that may not even give us a second glance otherwise. It would also prove that we are a viable group and ministry. I'm not sure how many people take us seriously.

I want more adults in the group, I want us to do non-Christian events so God can use us, I want to do more in our own church. I have a group of people who really want to change the world for Jesus, and starting in our own back yard is a good idea.

The world is what we make it. So is our church. Go think about that....

Sign Choir

2011-05-09T09:57:00.000-04:00

Hello. If you missed our sign language choir at Garner Relay for Life...you REALLY missed it.
This is an amazing group with hearts for God. They performed 4 songs and I was so proud of them!!
God gave us a good time slot, so many people saw us and that gave God some time to work in their hearts.

God has been faithful to this group and is blessing us every day. I have been told there is a competition for Christian groups and I am looking into it. Winning something would give our group credibility with non-Believers. It also may provide us with more ministering opportunities. :) That is what it is all about.

The only way you can change the world is ....if you go out and change it. Go think about that....

Obedience causes blessing

2011-04-16T11:15:00.001-04:00

I want to say THANK YOU to a friend of mine who was obedient to God when she asked me to teach sign to her homeschool daughter.
She took the step of faith, and I prayed and took the step of faith. Now, God has given me many open doors and many amazing opportunites to teach and help provide for my family while also being available to my children.

Now, I find out several of my sign students want to do something with sign language as a career. Now, tell me that isn't God. You can't and even if you tried, I would not believe it.

God revealed to me that I was obedient to Him when I started the sign choir, and it led to sign classes, and that led to kids making life choices. It also lets us minister to the community and tell people about Jesus.

So, what I want you to remember is this: you may not know why God wants you to do something, but you should always do it. He does not have to tell you His plan...you should be excited to wait and see what He has in store for you. God uses us to touch others in ways we may not ever see....but He uses us just the same. Don't ever tell God no....for the obvious reasons...but also because He may need to you to make a life difference for someone else.

It is not all about you or me....it is all about HIM. Now, go think about that......

Good Things Happening

2011-03-29T13:53:00.000-04:00

God is soooo good to me!! Of course, I could stop right there...but I won't.
God has given me a gift of teaching. God has also given me a love of sign language. NOW, He has combined them to allow me to teach sign classes to homescholars.

Next week, when my precious kiddos track back into school, I will begin my next class. How often do people get to do what they love, and make a little cashola for doing it? God knows I needed a job, and now He is providing me with one in which I can make my own schedule, so I can be there for my kids when they are tracked out of year round school. Now, that is love!!

I get that song in my head: OH, how He loves us so. Oh, how He loves us....how He loves us so!!! (David Crowder Band, fyi)

So, I know my Father loves me, cause He blesses my socks off!! How has God blessed your socks off? Go think about that......

Fishers of Men

2011-03-13T10:08:00.002-04:00

Sorry it has been a while. Lots of things have been happening, of which I will post later.

But, for now, God has been stirring me up in the area of outreach. I am talking about right in my own town outreach. I am the director of my local church Sign Language Choir and God told me we need to focus on churches this year. He said that "the church" has become complacent, and He wants to stir us up. I pray He uses us to do that.

Then, we had a guest speaker two weeks ago. He ministers out west to native Americans. He told us that for three days, they give away clothes, shoes, and food to meet the needs of these people. Then, they give a concert, THEN they tell them about Jesus. He said they have to earn the right to share the Gospel. Than just affirmed what was already in my Spirit.

Our Pastor said he wanted to focus on outreach. I'm all for that. One of my buddies gave me some ideas for church outreach, and God gave me more. I am in the process of sending the ideas to my Pastor.

Needless to say, if God is really putting this on my heart, how many others in my church is He doing the same thing?

So, talk is cheap. That is my point. People don't care how much you know, until they know how much you care. Sound trite? Oh, well. Truth hurts. No one wants to know how much Jesus loves them, if the ambassadors of Him don't care. Jesus was always in the middle of the scruff, feeding and healing, and loving.

That should be our shining example. Who can you minister in your community? Are you afraid? Then do it afraid. Go think about that.....

Homemade Biscuits

2010-10-07T09:23:00.002-04:00

I finally found it! A southern biscuit recipe worthy of sharing. My daughter and I have been on a quest to become "Magnolia's" and be able to make mouth watering biscuits.

After 3 tries, here it is. It is a knock off version of Cracker Barrel, but yummy just the same.

2 cups self rising flour (I used White Lily)
2/3 cup buttermilk
1/3 cup shortening (I used Crisco)
1 tsp sugar

Cut shortening into flour until crumbly. (We used our hands)
Add buttermilk and form dough. On lightly floured surface, roll dough out to 3/4 in thick.
Cut with biscuit cutter into 3 inch circles.
Put onto ungreased cookie sheet, with sides almost touching, and bake at 450 for 10-12 minutes. (The original recipe said 8, but they were not done at 8)

You can brush melted butter on the tops when they come out, but we did not. If you make them too thin, they won't rise...so do at least 3/4 in thick.

Let me know what you think......

Politics as Usual...NOT

2010-09-28T17:58:00.002-04:00

Hello.
Those of you who know me, know my Dad is running for county commissioner. I have been helping him campaign and it has been quite eye opening.

I remember when we all sat down to discuss him throwing his hat into the ring, I told him ,"Be honest and answer all questions. Do not evade the question or talk in circles. Everyone does that. You need to be different to stand out."

Well, he has done just that. It is the main thing he gets the most compliments about. He is genuine and sincere, and has the best interest of the people at heart. His desire to do the right thing comes shining through.

Trivia: women did not get the right to vote (yes, it is a right) until 1920.

Remember: Tues, November 2 is voting day. Don't forget, the surest way for evil to win is for good people to do nothing. Now, go think about that...

Book Reviews

2010-09-14T13:03:00.002-04:00

OK, I absolutely love, love, love to read. I read Christian fiction, usually in the category of suspense/sci fi. BUT, I will read some general fiction.

So, first let me tell you some of my favorite books that I have read IN THE LAST YEAR...

If you like Christian fantasy/sci fi, you will love:

Ted Dekker: Blink, Black, Red, White, Saint (yes, all of those are one word titles)

If you like mystery/ suspense, you will love:

Randy Alcorn: Deception, Dominion

Kathy Herman: too many to list

If you like Christian romance, you will love:

Karen Kingsbury

Beverly Lewis: The Brethren

If you like an author who can write about several genres, try:

Melody Carlson: Armando's Treasure, The Christmas Bus, An Irish Christmas, The Gift of Christmas Present, I Heart Bloomberg (one in a series of 3)

From time to time, I will list more of my favorite books. Tim LaHaye wrote a series that was like Christian Indian Jones. Maybe I will tell you about those next time. But, feel free to ask me if I have read an author or a book if you want my opinion. AND, if you read a great book and want to share, feel free to let me know about it. Just make sure it is a Christian book please. Thanks.

Out of the darkest night, shines the brightest light

2010-09-13T18:47:00.003-04:00

I am not sure how to put my thoughts into words...which for those of you who know me may find surprising.

First, those that treat you the way God says they should, they usually stand out. Most people probably don't. Kind of like good customer service at a store. It is so rare, that when it happens, you notice and tell others.

I had something happen to me/my family that I thought was not right. It made me feel like my family was not shown the proper courtesy that I had bestowed upon the offenders. I prayed that I could forgive them, and for God to help me with it...and He will. That's not the point. The point is that people came to mind that DID make my family feel loved and accepted, warts and all...with no judgment and condemnation. They really shone thru.

I called one of those families to tell them about it. The mom told me she appreciated hearing that. You like to know if you are doing something right.

So, this was one big thing. The other was this: last week was Encouragement Week. So, I chose 2 (of the many) of my friends who had been a blessing to me, and I wrote them a card and told them so. I am so blessed to have several true friends, it was hard to choose. One of them called me later to thank me. The other sent me an email, and told me what a blessing I had been to her.

Here is what got me. I hope you are sitting down for this one. She said when someone has been a real blessing to you, then you understand what it means for them to say you are a blessing to them. Now, stop and think about that one. She said my life has been a witness to her in ways I could never imagine. (didn't I begin by blessing her?) By now, tears are coming down my face as I realize she is right. If you have ever been in need, and someone was a blessing to you, it does take on a new meaning when another says you are a blessing to them.

So I have been humbled in many ways, and reminded that even Christians can treat you unjustly...but you still have to forgive. God calls us to be the example whether we feel like it or not.

Go be a blessing to someone for no reason at all. Think about that.....

Who Are You???

2010-09-01T09:07:00.002-04:00

Who you are when no one is looking, is who you are....

I put this as my Facebook status earlier this week. I try to live by this and teach my kids to live by this. If you try, you'll soon find out it is difficult sometimes. By nature we tend to go the easier route...to follow the crowd. If you do that long, you'll find out it is much better to go on a less traveled path.

So, who are you?

Do you cheat on your taxes?

Do you tell what Lucy Ricardo calls "social fibbs"? That is, do you find it easy to tell a white lie to get out of dinner with a friend or helping someone with something? Oh, and by the way, a lie is a lie...they don't have colors.

If you find cash on the floor of Harris Teeter, do you put it in your pocket or take it to customer service?

If you go to Chick Fil A with your mom, do you go sit down and let her order two senior meals so you can get yours at a discount? (yes, this is a lie)

I could go on, but you get the idea. I have been made fun of in my life because I chose to do the right thing. I didn't care because I am sure of who I am in Christ. I am sure the Lord used me as an example to people in that way.

So who are you? If you find it easy to lie, then there is a problem. Hit your knees now and repent, and ask God to help make it very hard for you to lie.

Would you punish your child if they did or said some of the things you do or say? Then you need to stop. Would you do or say those things right to Jesus' face? If not, don't do them to anyone.

God holds us to a very high standard. So as you go about your day, pay attention to what you do or say to others. Are you honest or do you lie?

Who you are when no one is looking, is who you are. Now, go think about that.....

Worry is a waste of the Imagination

2010-08-25T09:40:00.002-04:00

Worry is a waste of the imagination! Truly!!

When you worry, how does that change anything in your situation? How often when we worry, does it end up not being as bad as we thought? How many times when we have worried, have we been able to control that situation? So, this means worry is useless...a waste of time. Right?

In Matthew 6, we are told that God knows we need to eat and drink, and He knows we need clothes to wear. We are not to worry about them. (Matt 6:28-31)

Jesus asked who by worrying can add any cubits to his stature? --Matt 6:27

So, if Jesus said not to worry, why would we think we know better and worry anyway? If Jesus said not to do it, it makes it a sin.

"If then God so clothes the grass which today is in the field, and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, how much more will he clothe you, O you of little faith." --Luke 12:28

This scripture is a repeat of the above one, only it adds the phrase, you of little faith. This would mean you cannot have faith and worry at the same time. They cancel each other out. So, you either worry about something, or you give it to God and have faith that He will work it out.

This is so simple, some of you will not believe that is all there is to it. But it is. God is not complicated. Have you ever seen the bumper sticker from the 1980's that read: God said it. I believe it. That settles it.

How true it is!! Jesus does not lie. If you feel you need to worry about anything, then that is the devil feeding you a lie and you are listening to him. STOP IT!! The devil is the father of lies. Hello???

James 4:7 says If you submit to God, and resist the devil...he HAS to flee from you.

The key there is if you submit to God. God has given you a way out.

So, stop worrying and start praying. When you give something to God, let go of it!! He can't handle it if you still have it in your own hands. Now, go think about that.....

Trust and Sign Language

2010-08-24T10:18:00.003-04:00

Good news! Well, it is good news to me!

I am going to begin teaching sign language classes starting October.

It has been requested of me for a while now, but I could not fit it in. Well, the Lord has worked it all out. Now, I can begin teaching homeschoolers during the day when my own children are in school.

I am dividing the class up into two eight week sessions. Each class will meet once a week for 2 hours, and it is from older elementary to adult. I hope by April, to have two classes a week, a Part 1 and a Part 2. I will just need a location for the second class.

I have been wanting to send my kids to a private Christian school in the area, but needed the tuition. This class will help me with that. Thank you Lord for answered prayer.

When is the last time you said to God, "OK, Lord, I need this much money a month by this time. You work it out and let me know what to do. Thanks. I'll be waiting for Your answer." and then just trusted that God would indeed work it out?

God won't put a desire in your heart and then laugh because you can't work it out. If He puts a desire in your heart, He already knows how He is going to work it out. He just wants us to ask Him for help, then trust that just like a Daddy, He will fix it.

I cannot stress to you enough how much God loves you. Think about a person you love more than anyone else in the universe. God loves you a million times more than that. He loves you so much that had it been only you, He would have died on the cross for just you. Now, you think about that...

2010-05-21T11:32:00.003-04:00

Okay, have you ever been to the Outer Banks of NC? If not, you are missing out.
Not only does NC have the most beautiful coastline, but being one of the original 13 colonies, NC is rich in history. You could spend a lifetime visiting all the historical landmarks in our state, and still not see them all.

Are you aware that NC has the tallest lighthouse in America? Cape Hatteras at 208 feet. NC also has the oldest lighthouse in America....Ocracoke Lighthouse build in 1798.

If you go to http://www.outerbanks.org/, click the where to play drop down box, and then click lighthouses, you can read about all of NC lighthouses and see a picture.

5 years ago, I went on a vacation to the Outer Banks and did all the touristy stuff, including climbing the Hatteras lighthouse. Let me say two things: TALL and WINDY.

Make it a point to visit our famous coastline if you have not. It is well worth the time.

Think about that......

MIA

2010-05-07T20:41:00.002-04:00

Sorry, I have been MIA for a while. Things got very busy here for me. It's no excuse, I know. I apologize. AND since things don't look like they are slowing down at all...I'm just going to do my best to keep up.

Yesterday on my Facebook page status, I wrote: So this is how liberty dies, with thunderous applause.

My friends thought I was being deep and philosophical. Actually, it was a quote from a movie, but my how relevant that is today!!! I tell my children that as the government slowly, one by one, takes away our freedom, we let them. One day, we will wake up and have none. We will only have ourselves to blame. Forcing us to recycle may seem stupid to worry about, and comes across as helpful. But the emphasis is on FORCE. Recycling is good, but not if I am made to do it.

We need to wake up and not let our leaders do things that our Constitution does not allow them to do. We need to know our rights, and what they can and cannot do. The bible says "My people perish for lack of knowledge."

How much constitution knowledge do you have? Maybe you should Google it and have a good read. You will be amazed at what you will learn.
Now, go think about that.

New Endeavor for Me

2010-02-19T09:03:00.005-05:00

Ok, I have decided to do some article writing for Examiner.com. I will do some Christian book reviews because I am such a bookworm, and I will do a Christian mom set because I am one....and because God gives me such random thoughts, all of which I can tie into living the best life He has for us.

A friend of mine, we tease each other about the random thing, but the truth is we both are random. God gives her random things that are totally different than mine... most of the time, so we have fun sharing.

Have you ever noticed some of your friends are carbon copies of you , and the rest are polar opposites? God does that to make our life fun. LOL

Back to Examiner. I have found out over the course of the last year that I like to write. I enjoy putting my thoughts down on paper and having others read them. I know it sounds narcissistic, but this is not an ego thing. God asked me to do it, so I did. I did not do any writing in school or college. God is using this opportunity to help my family make a little extra money, and to give me an outlet to let go of my random thoughts rolling aroung in the matrix of my mind.

So as I begin my adventure online, I will be sending out links to my articles. Please read them and give me feedback. Who knows, God may give me an idea to write about the very subject you have been wondering about. AND..if you want me to write on a particular topic, drop me a line.

As a last thought, remember that as you go out your front door, you are entering the Mission Field. You can either be a good example or a bad one...but you will be one or the other. Now, go think about that......

Glass Half Full

2010-01-14T09:28:00.003-05:00

I love blue. Enjoy the color today. Oh, just a thought, but I always tell my kids God's favorite color is green and His next favorite is blue. When you go outside later today, look around...and you will understand why.

Last night my family and I were eating dinner and discussing optimist versus pessimism. I am very glass half full. I see all the possibilities. If you tell me why you can't do something, I will find a way you can. That is just how I roll.
I accused my hubby of being the glass half empty. He corrected me. He maintains he just "sees it for how it really is"...he deems himself a realist, while I deem myself as the dreamer. Funny how God puts us together to balance us out. I tell others my husband keeps me grounded, while I help him see the stars.

I am not trying to put him down. No!!! I respect him very much. He is very smart and, like it or not, I learn a lot from him.

I heard a quote somewhere (from a song...big surprise) that says "Impossible is not a word. It is an excuse for some people not to try." I LOVE this. How true is it? How many times have you tried to help someone only for them to list all the reasons WHY it can't work?

Personally, that ticks me off. Once I even told someone to quit telling my why they couldn't, and start figuring out how they could. I even raised my voice to them. (sorry Mom)..yes, it was to my Mom. I felt the Holy Spirit rise up and it came out.

God made us different yes. God gave us each special abilities. His plan for each of us is a little different...well, the destination is the same, but the route we take is different. (I will expand on that more later. Think Lord of the Rings.)

The Bible says nothing is impossible with God. Nothing. Nada. So to me, when we say we can't or try to find a way to excuse why we can't, then it is like a slap in the face of God....now, go think about that.

Why are you mean???

2010-01-11T09:24:00.003-05:00

I was having a before bed Bible reading devotion time with my 9 year old son last week, when he said to me, " Mom, I pray and read the Bible, and I am still mean!"

Now, of course I laughed out loud. This was funny to me. He was realizing that our walk with God is a daily ongoing all the time thing. We don't pray once and it is over. Well, not when it concerns our flesh. We battle with our flesh all day, every day...and he was just beginning to "get it".

In Romans 7: 15-17, Paul says: I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good. As it is, it is no longer I myself who do it, but it is sin living in me.

I had to explain to my son about sin, and regularly seeking God's forgiveness...that he had to keep his own line of love open with God and not let sin block his direct uplink.

We all deal with flesh every day. We all have different areas of trouble too. Some it is offense, some it is our thought life, others it is our mouth. It doesn't matter what it is, we have to get a hold of it.

Pray that this year, 2010, that it will be the year you "conquor" this area so you can move on to another. Don't waste another year 'wallowing' in the same old junk.

Think about that.............

2010-01-06T09:08:00.003-05:00

Happy 2010!!!
Already this has been a fantastic year!! God is moving in might ways and I am ready for what He has planned for me!!

The last time I made a new year resolution, it was defaulted on in three days. So, I am not doing that this time.

This time, I am simply going to point my feet in the direction God wants me to go, and move. He cannot steer a parked car. I am going to begin learning ASL (the actual language, I already know signs), I am going to stay more organized and on top of my tasks, and I am going to focus on getting the sign choir out in front of more people. I am going to choose more edgy songs so we can get more attention when we are at public events. There are other things I am working on that I am not at liberty yet to divulge. Suffice it to say, those will be nice surprises when God works them out.

One of my best buddies said she was on the right road, but God was just widening it. That is exactly how I feel. God is widening my road. Maybe that should be my motto of 2010. I don't really have one, so if you come up with one, shoot me an email or comment.

Take an inventory of your life and areas God wants you to work on, and make a plan. Don't be flip about it, be serious and step out of the box. God is very out of the box...think about that.

God Rocks!

2009-12-11T08:27:00.002-05:00

I want to say how awesome God is to me!!! He is so faithful. He blesses me beyond my understanding.

God helps me in the little things. The things that seem insignificant, that is where I find Him often.

For instance, there is a song I want to do for sign choir. I could not find anyone who had it and thought I was going to have to buy it. This morning, I decided to go thru old CD's to find a fast song. I picked up a CD, started listening to it, and what did I discover? I HAD IT!! The whole time!!! I just know God had a good chuckle over my reaction to finding it. That is not the first time that has happend, mind you.

God surprises me like that all the time. Kind of like a parent who tries to surprise a child, cause it is fun to see their little faces.

God not only meets my needs like He promised, but He goes above and beyond. I know how blessed I am, and I appreciate it.

Think about the many blessings in your life. Once you start listing, you just go on and on. You think about that......

The ELF Movie

2009-12-04T08:27:00.003-05:00

Hello. I love Christmas. Love. Love. Love. Not only is it the celebration of the birth of Christ, but it seems to be the only time of year mean people try to be nice. Sad, but true.

I love the lights, I love the music, I love singing carols about Jesus. And I love the movies and specials.

One of my friends had a special affinity for the movie Elf. I do not. I tease her about it. But, she told me one of the reasons she likes it is that no matter what happens, the main character, Buddy the Elf, is happy. He finds joy in all things. Nothing gets him down. She says that is what speaks to her. That we should all find that much joy in all circumstances, and we should find joy in even the little simple things.

So, this year, I will watch Elf with a re-newed interest and try to look at life through Buddy's eyes. You think about that......

What I heard on the radio...

2009-11-30T08:28:00.002-05:00

I was listening to the radio in my car, when I heard a commercial:

Church is not a hotel for saints, it is a hospital for sinners.

I know, God speaks to me quite a bit thru the radio. That's ok...that's how we roll. And if you think about it, this doesn't seem very profound, until you really think about it.

If you read my post about fishbowls, you will understand how this relates. We cannot sit together holding hands, singing praises to the Lord. We are commanded to go out into the world, and save the lost. We are to find them and bring them into the church, teach them what God's word says, tell them how much He loves them....and help them go out and find more lost people. We are not to be contented to sit in our pews with each other in our happy little world. We are to go find those who need Jesus the most, and bring them in. We catch em, He cleans em. This is very true.

Casting Crowns has a new song out:

Lord I want to feel your heart
and see the world through your eyes
I want to be your hands and feet
I want to live a life that leads

ready yourselves
ready yourselves
Let us shine the light of Jesus in the darkest night
ready yourselves
ready yourselves
May the powers of darkness tremble as our praises rise
Until the whole world hears Lord we are calling out
Lifting up Your name for all to hear the sound
Like voices in the wilderness we're crying out
as the day draws near
we'll sing until the whole world hears

THIS is how we should think. Now, you think about that.....

Clearplay DVD Player

2009-11-18T09:16:00.003-05:00

Hello Friends!!!

Ok, with Christmas coming up, those with kids need new ideas. Well, at the Christian bookstore, you can get a Clearplay DVD Player on sale for around $80. "Why do I want this?", you ask.

First, for $5 a month, you subscribe to their filter website. They provide filters for movies and make them kid friendly. With a USB port, you download movie filters from their site and put it on the Clearplay. When you insert a DVD into the player, and select "watch with filter", it cleans up the movie for you. You can choose to watch a movie without a filter, but you need a password to do this. This protects your children from watching something bad when you are not around.

The clearplay allows you to set the filters as light or extreme as you would like. They have every movie imaginable. They do not have all the TV shows...so for Andy Griffith DVD's, I need a password. I do not mind though...it is a small price to pay for clean movies.

The clearplay mutes out cuss words, deletes all sex scenes, and will delete any scenes that are the least bit inappropriate for kids.

Movies we could never watch, we now can.....we can watch The Bourne Supremacy without all the yucky stuff.

Now, for violent scenes, such as the Bourne Identity, it shows the fight scenes, but cuts out the actual killing and showing of the dead body. You can enjoy the plot of the movie, without having to subject yourself to the unnecessary gore.

I LOVE my clearplay, and consider it the best thing we own....next to our Wii.

Think about that.....

Oh, how He loves us so.....

2009-11-08T14:30:00.002-05:00

Wednesday night at church, I sat behind a couple and their 9 month old little girl. She was a happy thing, and smiled at me each time I smiled at her. She was in her daddy's arms, and he was kissing her and loving her and whispering to her. I watched this tender scene our whole 30 minute praise and worship time.

God impressed upon my heart this: that is how HE is towards us. He puts His arms around us, He kisses us, and He whispers to us. God loves us way more than that daddy could ever love that baby....and he loved his little girl a lot.

God thinks of me as His little girl still to this day. He still wants the best for me. I cried as God spoke to my heart that night. There are days I ask God to help me feel Him. And He does. The next time you see a child with a parent, think about that......

Psalm 100

2009-11-04T09:03:00.003-05:00

Shout for joy to the Lord, all the earth.
Worship the Lord with gladness;
come before Him with joyful songs.
Know that the Lord is God.
It is He who made us, and we are His.
We are His people, the sheep of His pasture.

Enter His gates with thanksgiving and
His courts with praise.
Give thanks to Him and praise His name.
For the Lord is good and His love endures forever.
His faithfulness continues through all generations.

I love this. I looked up thanks in my trusty thesaurus:to express gratitude, grateful, obliged, indebted to, appreciation, acknowledgement to, tender thanks to, bless.

Then, I looked up praise: good words, compliments, approval, acclaim, regard, respect, esteem, tribute, extol, exalt, revere, celebrate

Those are amazing words to describe how we are to approach God. When was the last time you just told Him "thank you" ? I believe that God is a happy God, otherwise it would not be the Joy of the Lord being our strength.
God is good. He loves us so much. Sit with Him today and just love Him and tell Him thanks.
Think about that......

Diamonds and Success

2009-10-31T15:25:00.003-04:00

Ok, I got a famous quote out of a book. It says : a diamond is just a piece of coal that stuck to the job.

I love that!! How true. Most people miss opportunity because it disguises itself as work. In this instant gratification, microwave world we live in, no one wants to take time to become successful. They all want the fame and the money, but they don't want to work for it. Overnight success....that is what people crave.

Success= Einstein and Edison
Fame= Madonna

There is a distinct difference in the two. Fame may equal money, but not necessarily success. My Mama always told me if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Making $5,000 a month flipping foreclosed properties the first week...the one you see on late night TV...probably NOT true. Ha,ha,ha,ha.

I have learned as I get older, that I enjoy good honest work. Success will come when it's time, but I won't sit on my duff waiting for it. I'm going to go out and make it happen.

Think about that...

Green Bean Casserole--remade healthy

2009-10-23T11:35:00.003-04:00

Ok, here is another tested recipe that I WILL make again. As Thanksgiving fast approaches, I am finding yummy, low sodium, lower fat things to make for my family. Please enjoy this one.

Healthy Green Bean Casserole

3 lbs green beans, trimmed and cut in half. ( I used 3 cans no salt beans)
4 large shallots (I used green onions)
1 Tbs olive oil
1 ½ course fresh bread crumbs
1 tsp fresh chopped thyme
3 cups lowfat milk
3 Tbs butter
¼ cup all purpose flour
1/8 tsp nutmeg
1/8 tsp allspice
1/ 2 cup grated parmesan cheese
Salt and pepper to taste

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

If using fresh beans, cook them. If using cans, no heating required. Put them in a large 3 quart baking dish.

In 12 inch skillet, heat oil on medium and cook onions 4 minutes. Add bread crumbs (which I seasoned with extra thyme and allspice) and cook 2 minutes until dry and golden. Transfer mix to large bowl, add thyme, salt, pepper, and sprinkle with allspice.

In microwave, heat milk on high for 4 minutes.

Meanwhile, in same skillet, melt butter on medium, and add flour. Slowly add milk, stirring constantly, and cook 2 minutes or until thickened (having consistency of heavy cream) Stir in nutmeg, salt and pepper.

Pour mixture over beans and stir until evenly coated.

Stir parmesan cheese into bread and spread bread over beans.

Bake 30 minutes or until sauce is bubbling.

(Note: I personally will add more seasoning to the milk mixture next time…maybe pepper, thyme, and more allspice.)

If you try this, drop me a line and let me know what you think. Thanks. Enjoy.

Low Sodium Cooking Website

2009-10-16T08:56:00.004-04:00

If you have been following this blog, you know I have been researching recipes with little or no salt.

With Thanksgiving coming up quickly, I wanted to find things my Mom can enjoy and that will be healthy. I found an amazing site that has done a lot of leg work for me.

http://www.lowsodiumcooking.com/ This man was diagnosed with Congestive Heart Failure and was forced to change his life. He has a menu on the side of his site which is very easy to navigate. BUT, he has a list of recipes divided up into categories. I found a recipe for homemade stuffing that I am going to try this year.

I also found a recipe for a makeover green bean casserole that I am going to try this Sunday night. If it is good, I will post it here. (I know I still need to post the mac and cheese one).

There are easy ways to change your diet and not give up any flavor. As I continue on this journey, I will keep you updated. If any of you come across any yummy recipes, please send them to me.

Think about that.....

Things God has Said

2009-10-15T09:47:00.002-04:00

God has been speaking to me and saying different things, depending on what is going on at the time. I listen. I have learned that God is infinitely smarter than me. :)

Earlier this week, I have seen the bumper sticker: Wag more. Bark less.

This is biblical. Love each other no matter what. Forgive each other and act as though no wrong has been committed. Keep our mouth shut. Our mouth gets us in more trouble than any other part of our bodies. Speak only good, helpful, happy things about each other. Or, if you can't say something nice don't say anything at all. That's biblical. I bet if we were to list all the things our mom's and grandma's taught us...most of them would be right outta God's Word.

My pastor, who is awesome, spoke last night on keeping our mouths shut. The power of life and death are in the tongue. You get what you say. What are you saying?

So, as funny as that sticker is, and even though the devil meant it to be a liberal animal lover mantra....I see it as biblical. :) So, devil, in your face....

Think about that.....

Preparation is the Key

2009-10-06T08:58:00.003-04:00

One of my favorite movies of all time is Facing the Giants. (if you have not seen it, it is a MUST SEE. You will never be the same) There is a quote from there that I have up in my office. It simply says:

God will send the rain with He's ready. You need to prepare your fields to receive it.

I know this means different things to different people. But, think for a moment...what is YOUR field and what is YOUR rain? Are you believing for children? Then your body is your field and your baby is your rain. Are you waiting for a financial breakthru? Then your bank account is your field and the finances are your rain. You may just be waiting for God to help you with your life in general. Then, your mind is your field, and your faith/belief/answer is your rain.

No matter what your situation is, you will need to have faith. That doesn't change. All of us are believing God for something. All of us. A few months ago, my pastor told us to think of something that we were having a hard time giving to God, and we prayed about it and I gave it to God. Whenever the devil tried to bring it up, I reminded him and me that it was God's issue now. My hands were off. Amazingly enough, that was all it took. Just a month after that, that "thing" I gave God blossomed. I was truly in wonder. God did it!!

Later, I saw how how I had been preparing my fields and didn't even realize it. God is faithful. He loves us very much. AND he wants to bless us. He wants to send the rain....you just have to prepare your fields to receive it.

Go think about that.....

Teach your Children

2009-10-01T09:44:00.002-04:00

Teach your children to respect authority and their elders!!! Period!

I am a substitute teacher and I am amazed at how kids treat me! Wow. I mean, wow!! We, as parents have to set the example everywhere...and we have to make sure our kids are getting the message.

When I pick my children up from school, I tell them you better NEVER treat a teacher the way that class just treated me. Shame.

And you wonder why this world is like this. The Bible predicted this in the last days. It says there will be homosexuality, kids won't respect authority, people will get easily offended....any of this sounding familiar?

Proverbs 1:7 says the "fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom". That is not fear, it means respect and honor. Respecting and honoring God is the beginning of wisdom. Let's start there.

Now, go think about that......

2009-09-28T13:15:00.002-04:00

TACO MIX!!!!!

Here it is!!! Here is the healthy, no sodium taco seasoning.

Makes one cup.

12 tsp chili powder

10 tsp paprika

9 tsp ground cumin

6 tsp onion powder

5 tsp garlic powder

1/2 tsp cayenne

Mix well. Store in airtight container for up to 6 months. For two large chicken breasts, I used 3 Tbs mix with 1/2 cup water. I let the cooked, cut up chicken simmer in mix until water was gone. Obviously, I made chicken tacos, but you could use hamburger. It smelled just like the packets we used to buy.

Last night, I made homemade mac and cheese. I will post that recipe later this week. Let me know what you think when you try it.

Enjoy!

Work and Sam Goldwyn

2009-09-25T07:40:00.003-04:00

Most of you may not have ever heard of Sam Goldwyn, but all of you have heard of MGM Studios. Sam Goldwyn was an American movie producer from 1882-1974. He was quoted as saying, "The harder I work, the luckier I get."

Now, coming off of some stupid things our US government officials have done, I am in the mood to rant. I personally don't mind helping those who need help. By that I mean, those who are trying to help themselves. I do not agree with rewarding those who just don't want to work....and there are many like that. My homeowners insurance went up 38%. Why???? Because NC lawmakers decided we all needed to help those who owned a beachhouse to pay their high homeowners insurance. They made all of us pay for it...it was spread all over the state. So, I pay $300 more for a beach house I do not have. If you cannot afford the house, SELL IT!!! (sorry, if you get offended easily, you better not continue reading.)

Why does the government think it is right to steal from the hard workers and give to the have not's? History proves, the lower the taxes and the less involvement from the government, the more people help those in need. I don't like to be forced. I tend to give less to the needy when the government is already taking so much from me.

An anonymous source said, "Some who are not paid what they are worth ought to be glad." I love this. I have met some of these people too. I know we all have.

To me, there is no excuse in this great USA, with all the opportunity here...for you not to achieve your dreams. For goodness sake, the government gives grants to poor people so they can go to college. Lots of groups will mentor small business owners for free. If you have a good business plan, you can get a small business loan and start your own. Heck, in America if you are good at a sport, you can get paid tons of money to play it for a living.

The governement has gone wrong in one key area....the saying, "Give a man a fish, feed him for a day. Teach him to fish, feed him for a lifetime." You don't give people money without job training or schooling. I believe the Democrats WANT their constituants uneducated and dependent...otherwise, they would use our tax money better. Handing poor people a check without helping them learn to change their circumstances just breeds more dependence. Why would you vote for someone who is not helping you? Why would you vote for someone who thinks you are too stupid to know the difference?

Sam Goldwyn worked hard and did well for himself. You can work hard AND smart, and do well in this great USA. Now, go think about that....

Sodium and Other Junk in our food...

2009-09-21T15:40:00.002-04:00

Most of you know at this point my mom is recovering from triple bypass. She has inspired my family to get healthy. Now, what you think is healthy, is NOT. There, I said it.

Go look at a can of soup. Look at the sodium content and multiply that by the number of servings in the can. Yikes!! I believe we should get no more that 1200 mg sodium per day.

Here is an eye opener: Betty Crocker Suddenly Salad 1200 mg in box
Kraft Deluxe mac and cheese 3720 mg in box
Hormel Complete Turkey and Dressing 1120 mg in box
Ken's Creamy Caesar Dressing 280 mg per 2 tablespoons (2240 in 8oz bottle)
Cheez It whole grain cheese crackers 250 mg sodium for 27 crackers (by far the best deal yet)
Cheerios 190 mg per 1 cup serving
Utz Baked Cheese Balls 260 per 32 balls
Pringles original flavor 150 mg per 16 chips (really not bad)
Chicken Noodle Soup 2250 mg in can
Progresso 40% less sodium Italian Wedding soup 960mg in can

Now, I told you this to open your eyes. I have not even told you about cholesterol and fat grams. I have found that if you research online, you can find sodium free recipes for about anything....to make from scratch. I have found taco seasoning, mexican rice, and I got some fresh corn on the cob too. Convenience foods will make your body sick.

Try to look at contents and make better choices for your family. Easier is not always better. With proper planning, you can eat fresh things right out of your freezer...things that you put there!! I will discuss more as I embark on my journey to healthier eating. If this taco stuff and rice is good, I will post the recipes here.

Think about what you are putting in your mouth and your children's mouths..........

Quotes worth Pondering....

2009-09-17T11:25:00.003-04:00

I love good quotes. LOVE THEM!! So, here are some I have come across lately. I will discuss some of them over the next few weeks.

Wag more, bark less. (bumper sticker on a earth biscuit's car)

A friend is a person who listens attentively while you say nothing. (anonymous)

Real friends are those who, when you've made a fool of yourself, don't feel you've done a permanent job.

It takes a great man to deal with catastrophe and an even greater one to prevent it. (anonymous)

A good leader takes more than his share of the blame, and a little less than his share of the credit. ( arnold glasgow)

Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power. (Abraham Lincoln)....let me say this is coming to fruition with our current Prez. Sad...

Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it. (george santayana)

Bad officials are the ones elected by good people who do not vote. (george jean nathan)..ahem, hello? that is why we have Obama. Sad again.

Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred to talk. (Doug Larson)

Ok, I am done...there are tons and I could go on forever. Enjoy these and you think about that......

Hollywood

2009-09-15T08:48:00.003-04:00

Ok, I don't know where to begin my thoughts today. First, I do NOT watch MTV (not since 12th grade)...and I did NOT watch the awards, but I heard all over the news about Kanye West (I don't care if I misspelled it) jumping on stage while Taylor Swift made her speech. How rude was that? Don't you know his Mama was home watching her son get drunk on national television, and making a poop of himself!! This is not new, unfortunately.

Now, this morning we heard about Patrick Swayze passing away. Sad, yes. But, do we know where he was going? Did he take the UP elevator, or the DOWN one? I have been praying for revival in Hollywood for a while now. It would only take one influential person to make a big change.

Can you imagine movies being made with no sex, no cuss words, and no drinking? Back in the olden days, there were lots of clean movies. To me, it takes much more creativity to make a movie or tv show funny and clean. Think I LOVE LUCY, DICK VAN DYKE SHOW, ANDY GRIFFITH SHOW, COSBY SHOW...I could go on. Those were monster hits.

Notice when a kids movie comes out, it is always in the top 3 at the box office. Why? Cause there are NONE. People want that. We need it.

So, join me in praying for revival in Hollywood.....think if George Lucas became a Christain. Or Will Smith....Britney Spears, Brad Pitt, Steven Spielbgerg, Ron Howard. Don't laugh.

Think about that.....

9/11

2009-09-11T11:04:00.002-04:00

Thank you to all the soldiers who are overseas and sacrificing so much to help keep our country free. Thank you to the families left behind who share their family member so we can be free.

I'm sorry...to the ones who lost a loved one in the 9/11 attacks. Please know that we shared your pain that day. We cried with you, and still cry when we think about it. We are teaching our children about the truth of that day.

Freedom is never free. Remember that....

How the Lost Get Found

2009-09-10T08:24:00.002-04:00

I heard a song on the radio yesterday and the chorus said this:

Don't let your lights go down
Don't let your fire go out
Cause somewhere, somebody needs a reason to believe
Why don't you rise up now?
Don't be afraid to stand out
That's how the lost get found

Now, I know as Christians we are watched....by both other Christians and non-christians. I have had people tell me that they had been watching me, and my example was a testimony to them. I had no idea I was being scrutinized. God was using me and I did not know it.

So, first, if you are a road rage driver, take the fish off your car. DO NOT mess up Jesus' example. Second, pray and have God tell you things you may be doing that are hindering others from coming to Him. Like, drinking wine or beer. In and of itself, this is fine...but if it makes a non-Christian think you are full of it, then God can't use you to minister to them. If you play the lottery, and non-christians are watching you...what does that tell them? If you honestly ask God, He will honestly tell you.

You are being either a wonderful example or a horrible warning. Think about it. Which one are you? Are you full of love and kindness, or do you think everyone in the world but you is stupid, and therefore you have a bad attitude?

I met a lady who was not full of joy or kindness, and when I f ound out she knew the Lord, I had to hide my shock. Would the people at your work be surprised to know you were a Christian? How about your neighbors? Your family? We draw others to Jesus cause we are different. No one wants what the world has, they want what WE have. Shine your Light. You can make a difference in a life, and you may not even know about it until Heaven.

Our church sign language choir is performing at the Clayton Harvest Festival on Sept 19. We are going out on the mission field and minister to some people who may not have ever set foot in a church...or who may not know anything about Jesus' love. I pray God uses us to hold their attention long enough to hear His message...and hopefully spark something in them that gets them to a local church. God can use ANYTHING to draw people to Him...even YOU.
Think about that.....

Mortality

2009-09-08T10:51:00.002-04:00

First, let me say Condolances to the Baysden family. Their 8 year old daughter passed away yesterday from an aggressive form of cancer. She is with Jesus now, in His arms and no longer in pain.

A friend of mine, just this morning, asked me what I would be willing to endure joyfully for God? Would I joyfully let myself be beaten and hanged, singing hymns the whole time and praising God? Would you watch your child be beaten and hanged, while praising God? None of us know exactly how we would react because we have never had to in the USA. I pray we never will. Think about right now, what would you be willing to do?

If the leaders of the country said we could not purchase anything (gas, food, electricity, water) unless we rejected Christ, could you? Could you watch your kids starve?

I know I am being very exagerrated. I am just trying to get you to think. Another friend of mine said the reason our country is in the state it is in now is because Christians have sat back and done NOTHING for so long. I am NOT a democrat or a socialist...I support conservative views, not handouts. Bad things happen when good people do nothing.

I have said to my hubby many times, to get people out to vote and get them excited, Congress should threaten to take away the right for women to vote. No one cares about their freedoms until you try to take them away. Freedom is NEVER free.

You think about that.......

Life is Precious

2009-09-02T09:13:00.003-04:00

Hello!
I know it has been a while, but let me say, life is precious. None of us know how many days we have left. None of us know how many days our family members have left. When is the last time you said "I love you" to someone close to you? When is the last time you said it to your mom, dad, brother, sister, best friend, spouse, or child?

The last time you got into an argument with someone close to you, was it over something important or something petty? Did you apologize or are you still holding a childish grudge "because you didn't start it, so you should not have to apologize first" ?

My mom had unexpected triple bypass surgery day before yesterday. She went to the doctor with what she thought was an anxiety attack. Turns out, she had a mild heart attack. In less than three days, she was having open heart surgery. Talk about clearing your mind!! Suddenly, the important things seem very important and the small things seem very petty.

Think about the last thing you said to anyone. Is that the last thing you would want them to hear from you? Let's stop being petty, and grow up. Let's see life for what it is...a gift from God. Now, go think about that.....

Judgment

2009-08-25T08:58:00.003-04:00

First, let me say be careful of the words that come out of your mouth. You can be chatting on the phone with a family member in innocent conversation, when it takes a turn. Then before you know it, you have gossiped and judged someone else....it was wrong and you need to repent. (That was me yesterday. So sorry Lord)

I was reading a book, and the man could not understand why something bad happened to one of his children and he blamed God. (we all have done that at one time or another) This man was being dealt with about why it was NOT God's fault even though God was being blamed. This man was clearly very angry at God because he had no one else to blame. So, the man was given a choice to send three of his children to Heaven and two of them to Hell. The man was horrified! He could not make such a choice. He asked if he could go instead of them. It was then that the man truly understood God's love for him....that is what God did. (think on that for a moment)

In the book, the man said how can God love his daughter and still let her go thru such a horrible thing?
"He doesn't stop a lot of things that cause Him pain. Your world is severly broken. You demanded your independence, and now you are angry with the One who loved you enough to give it to you. Nothing is as it should be, as God desires it to be, and as it will be one day. Right now your world is lost in darkness and chaos, and horrible things happen to those He is especially fond of."

"This was no plan of God's. God has never needed evil to accomplish His good purposes. It is you humans who have embraced evil and God has responded with goodness. What happened to [your daughter] was the work of evil and no one in your world is immune from it."

These are good quotes. No matter what, God loves us. More than we could ever imagine. He loves us when we are good, when we are bad, and when we need a good spanking. God always hugs us and says it's ok, just don't do it again. He tells us He loves us everyday. Did you see flowers today? Did you see fluffy clouds and sunshine? Did you see birds flying overhead? God tells you He loves us everyday.

Think about all of that.....

Are we fishers of men????

2009-08-20T09:32:00.005-04:00

I saw one of my friends on Facebook say as churches we should be fishers of men, not keepers of the aquarium. Stop and think about what that means. It is truly profound and I thank that friend for sharing it.

Not too many weeks ago, my pastor spoke about if we are to go and get the unchurched and bring them in...are we ready for what that means. He went on to say that means the homosexual, the pimp, the child molester, the prostitute.......how will we handle that? Can we love and teach without judging? Do we realize that those people will not change overnight? Well, he made a valid point. Most churches are happy with the nice congretation they have. They don't want new people because that would make them have to actually DO what the Bible says to do, that is love. We like our little comfort zone and we like the status quo. Beware, that turns us into lukewarm Christians, and you know what God does with those...the vomits them out of His mouth.

Status quo is being a keeper of the church aquarium. God likes to stretch us. God wants us to learn and love more. He can't steer a parked car. Is your church parked, or are they moving forward listening to what God wants to do? My church is definitely moving forward. God has placed many people with a vision of what our church could do and could be. Fortunately, we have a pastor with that same vision. My church is NOT a keeper of the aquarium. We know how to fish...we are in the south for Pete's sake. Ha,ha,ha.

Now, that is not to say that there are some peeps in my church that try to keep their own little aquarium. Fortunately, most of us are on the move. Jesus said we should be fishers of men. Go into all the world and preach the good news of the gospel. We catch em, He cleans em. ( I love that.)

Now, are you a fisherman or do you keep an aquarium?? You think about that.....

Success

2009-08-15T15:58:00.002-04:00

I love good quotes. One of my faves is by Vince Lombardi......The only place success comes before work is in the dictionary.

Ha, that is sooo true. Just ask any millionaire. Most business tycoons spent many countless hours working hard to find success. You have to try and find what works...usually through some failures. But, when you find what works and you kick it up a notch. That is the best!!!

Think of someone who is successful at something: Tiger Woods, Warren Buffett, Donald Trump, Ron Howard, or George Lucas (sorry, but I love Star Wars).....all of them put sweat and long hours into what they did. For sports, you have to practice many hours, for business the same thing. George Lucas went through several companies before he got someone to be interested in his work.

No one gets something for nothing. Well, they should not anyway. I know the culture in America today is moving towards entitlement mentality. Everyone has their hand out for the government to take care of them. Not me. I am smart and capable, and God will help me do whatever He wants me to do. I do not need a handout.
I wish more people in this country had pride in themselves and their abilities....imagine how awesome we would be if those on walfare actually tried to get off of it and the government tried to help them instead of keeping them dependant.

Think about that........

Out of the Office

2009-08-11T08:19:00.001-04:00

We have decided that we are going to have our computer fixed versus buying a new one. So, later today, this one will be dismantled.

I say this to tell you that I will be offline for the rest of the week. Not sure when we will get this thing back, but at least Friday. I will be back on Monday. Enjoy your week.

Try not to miss me too much.

Confusion and Delay

2009-08-10T09:05:00.002-04:00

Good Morning!
I have been without a computer for 5 days. I did fine and did not go through withdrawals, although I did learn a few things. I realized that I often email instead of calling people when I have a question.
I also saw when I finally did get back online that I had TONS of stuff in my inbox. Others email more than I do. It has replaced the phone call in so many instances. Part of that reason is we can email at 3am if we want to, and the recipient can respond whenever it is convenient. That part is good. The down side is we often go weeks without speaking to our good friends live.

I love technology. I do not Tweet, and I use Facebook sparingly. I am not addicted to either. (I do notice some people spend way too much time on Facebook wasting time on Quizzes and sending fake "gifts" all day. To those of you, I say, get off and go do something productive. LOL

Anyway, I am glad to be back. Remember to say a prayer for our soldiers overseas, and say a special Happy Birthday in August to mine.

Thomas Paine and the War

2009-08-04T11:17:00.004-04:00

What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly.

Thomas Paine said this. He lived from 1787 to 1809 and he wrote Common Sense, a pamphlet advocating colonial America's independence from Great Britian. He was against organized religion, and it got him kicked out of America. Only by presidential invitation did he come back here. But that is not why I am discussing him. He wrote this deep, profound, and timeless quote. Let me tell you what is says to me...

Think of our children. Most kids today are given anything and everything they want. They have cell phones at 8, PSP's (which are at least $175.00), iPods, X-box, and a computer. Most kids have a tv in their rooms with cable access (what?) and a DVD player.
How many of us make our kids earn what they get? It's no wonder they are bored with one thing in a week, and want something more. They don't appreciate it because they never had to work for it. That goes from adults too. This country is very rich....even our poor are richer than in most countries.

Now, think of our college age generation. They protest government, and support liberal programs because life should be fair(gag). News flash, ladies and gentlemen, life is NOT fair. Never has been. Our younger people disagree with war, and that is fine. But, like it or not, freedom is not free. The only reason you have the freedom to protest war is because someone came before you and fought for that right. Wake up and smell the venti caramel lattes!
The soldiers over in Iraq, Iran, and Afghanistan understand. I promise you they appreciate every ounce of freedom most of us take for granted each day. Have you all forgotten about the terrorist attacks in 2001? America is not immune.
You all need to thank a soldier today. WE ARE THE LAND OF THE FREE BECAUSE OF THE BRAVE....
think about that.

Child Evangelism Fellowship

2009-08-01T14:37:00.003-04:00

Today was the 2009 CEF Spectacular. It is a Christian event sponsored by local businesses in the area, and staffed by volunteers from many different churches and other places. It is totally FREE.

popcorn
drinks
snow cones
games with prizes
inflatables galore
magic show/entertainment

Everything was free!! There were booths that shared the Gospel, and the entertainment was all to share God's love. I have been to several of these events, and this was the first one in the Jim Graham Building at the Fairgrounds.

It was very crowded. I don't like lines myself, but I stood in many for my children. We got popcorn, snow cones, and drinks. They jumped in some of the inflatables, and saw part of the magic show. No one in the whole place gets paid. They are all volunteers. What a great outreach to the community!

I did wish the magician was more exciting. I found it boring. (I am not a kid, even though some who know me would beg to differ) There was one lady who did sign language to songs. She did one song at a time in between magic show. I found her the most interesting, and not because I have a sign choir. She chose current songs that spoke of God's love, and performed them with enthusiasm. I think if the starters of this event had put the word out that they needed performers...they would have had many to choose from, and it would not have been so redundant.

All in all, my children had a wonderful time, and I want to say THANK YOU to the people who put on this CEF event. Thank you to the sponsors and volunteers too.

Look around....

2009-07-29T19:21:00.003-04:00

In John 4:35, Jesus says to look around the harvest is ripe. That is the motto per se, of our sign choir. Our goal is not to go into all corners of the earth to tell the world about Jesus. Our goal is to share His love in our community. You don't have to go far to find unsaved people who are hurting and need Jesus.

I know I am not perfect. I know God tells me every day things He wants me to work on. I am the last one to throw a stone at anyone else. I know I come across confident and put together....and I am, but I know the things God wants to perfect in me. (Why am I confessing this?) Because God uses imperfect people to reach the lost. Perfect people cannot relate to others simply because most people who need God are far from perfect. So, the more messed up you are, the more God can use you. (ha,ha, but yes) Out of the the darkest night, comes the brightest light. If you look through the Bible, God used some of the biggest sinners to do some of His best work: David, Moses, Paul. (look up their history....it will give you hope and take away all your excuses)
Think of all the mistakes you have made in your life, what you have learned from them, and try to think how God can use that to help others.

So, now, look around at those in your local area....the harvest is ripe. Think about that.....

Christmas in July

2009-07-24T09:34:00.004-04:00

Tomorrow is July, 25, the halfway mark to Christmas. Hence, Christmas in July. I have decided to make this an unofficial holiday in my house. I played Christmas music today while I took my kiddos to school, and we sang Joy to the World. They loved it. One of my new faves is by Casting Crowns:

Oh little town of Bethlehem, Looks like another silent night

Above your deep and dreamless sleep, A giant star lights up the sky

And while you're lying in the dark, There shines an everlasting light

For the King has left His throne, And is sleeping in a manger tonight, tonight

Oh Bethlehem, what you have missed while you were sleeping

For God became a man, And stepped into your world today

Oh Bethlehem, you will go down in history, As a city with no room for its King

While you were sleeping, While you were sleeping

United States of America, Looks like another silent night

As we're sung to sleep by philosophies, That save the trees and kill the children

And while we're lying in the dark, There's a shout heard 'cross the eastern sky

For the Bridegroom has returned, And has carried His bride away in the night

America, what will we miss while we are sleeping?

Will Jesus come again, And leave us slumbering where we lay?

America, will we go down in history, As a nation with no room for its King?

Will we be sleeping, Will we be sleeping?

I love this song! It speaks of so many things, it makes my head swim in a good way. I love the line that says we are sung to sleep by philosophies that save the trees but kill the children. Our nation is drifting away from God. Quickly, too. We need to rise up as Christians and pray harder for our nation. When Jesus comes back to get us, there will be too many people left here. Too many who think they are so smart, and think there is no God. Well, guess what? There IS an eternity, whether you believe it or not. I shudder to think of all the "good" people who think they will get into Heaven, who will not. A big surprise is coming to Hollywood too. They think if they give to charities and adopt children from Africa, and sing a song about world peace, that they are ok. Sorry, that is NOT what the Bible says. I have been praying for revival in Hollywood. It would only take one big star to change it all. Personally, I don't care who God chooses. So, I pray.

We need to get serious about loving people, and winning souls to Christ. So, think. What have you done lately to help God's cause to win people over to Him???

The Big Bang Theory

2009-07-23T07:25:00.003-04:00

Have you ever heard of Stephen Hawking? He is a theoretical physicist and applied mathmetician at Cambridge University in Oxford, England. He was born in 1942(on Elvis' birthday, by the way) and plans to retire sometime in 2009. He has written several books, all about science. When it comes to quantum gravity and all things that are hard to understand, God gave him a wonderful mind. He has discovered all kinds of things regarding space as well. Right now, he is a quadripligic, dying of ALS. Why am I writing all this, you ask?

I read a book he wrote, called "The Theory of Everything". It is a set of speeches regarding black holes, quantum gravity, and cosmology. In his chapters on the big bang, he describes in very much detail, how he thinks it happened. It is way over my head. What I did understand is how delicate a procedure it was. The universe had to be a specific temperature for it to happen. So many things had to be just perfect for our universe to form as it did, so that it could sustain life. Hawking even made a comment one time that it pointed to a Creator, not chaos, to occur. As I read, I thought of several things:
*It takes a lot more faith to believe in the big bang, than a master Creator
*Only God could have made a universe to precisely and perfectly
*I won't rule out that God could have used a big bang to make the Earth (the precision of the facts Hawking presented were astounding) (who am I to limit how God may choose to do something?)
*The more I hear about science and its specifics, the more I don't see how scientists can deny God's existence.

In his book, Mr. Hawking comments that he does not believe in a God...well, he isn't sure if he does or not. He seems to be agnostice. Sadly, I think I will begin praying for his salvation....he is at the end of his life, and I don't want him to end up in Hell with Carl Sagan. Join me in prayer.

Think about that...

I am tired of racism.

2009-07-21T09:57:00.002-04:00

I am so very tired of racism. I hear people complaining on the news and radio about when will it ever end. I'll tell you....when people quit using it and bringing it up. Racism will end when we stop looking at someone's outward appearance and start looking at their heart and motives instead. I am not blind or naive. I did not fall off the turnip truck yesterday and I was raised in the south.
When I was young, I used to think when all the old racist people finally died, racism would go with them. THAT was naive. I had no idea people were teaching it to their kids and trying desperately to keep it alive. I had no idea that 25 years later, race would still be used as an excuse as to why someone did not do well in life.
We have a president who, like it or not, got where he is today by hard work. No, I am NOT an Obama fan, but I give credit where it is due. He did not have government handouts. He worked hard, got a degree, and made something of his life. He did not wallow in his circumstances and whine that life is not fair. Newsflash people: life is NOT fair. Get over it. Do something about it. Quit sniveling and go out and show 'em that you CAN do it and no one is going to stop you!!

The bible says:
There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus.
Galatians 3:28

where there is neither Greek nor Jew, circumcised nor uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave nor free, but Christ is all and in all.
Colossians 3:11
This doesn't sound like God is racist to me. He does not look at our outward appearance. He loves us all the same.

For everyone to whom much is given, from him much will be required; and to whom much has been committed, of him they will ask the more.
Luke 12:48

The Lord wants us to see others the way He sees them: with love. God does not believe in handouts. He wants us to love one another, to help one another, and to encourage one another.

Think about that...

Control is an Illusion

2009-07-17T09:12:00.003-04:00

Control: to exercise influence over, to suggest or dictate the behavior of

: influence or authority over

: restraint or ability to control one's emotions

Sorry folks, but control over anything but your own actions is an illusion. The ONLY thing you can control is what you think, say and do. Period.

You cannot control your Mom, you cannot control your children, you cannot control your boss at work, and you cannot control the driver on the highway. You can control if you eat too much or exercise, or if you pray or read your Bible.

The bible says one of the fruits of the Spirit is self-control. Hence, my point. Self.

Psalm 19:14 says," May the words of my mouth and the meditations of my heart be pleasing to you God."

Are you thinking pure thoughts? Happy, pleasant thoughts? Are you speaking life and love to others?

Think about that......

What if God said this to you...

2009-07-15T15:20:00.002-04:00

I was minding my own business, driving home from Fuquay, when I passed a church with a sign. Now, I have passed this church many, many times before and there is always a witty saying on their sign. Today, it was not witty. It was strong.

What if God said this to you: Do not confuse motion with progress.

Heavy. Deep. Serious. In this day and age where technology allows us to seperate ourselves from each other, and we can "talk" with our friends without ever hearing their voice for days on end....God whispered this to me. Most of us would say our lives are busy. But, busy with what? Work? Night school? Church things? Kid sports? What? If you listed out all the things you do that keep you busy, how many of them teach others about Jesus or show His love to someone? How many keep you away from God or away from your family?

Think about that...

Where to begin????

2009-07-14T09:32:00.003-04:00

God has said a lot to me yesterday. A LOT! I cannot stress that enough! I will open up and admit I am not the best parent in the world. I had a fight with my son yesterday morning. After taking both my children to school yesterday, I started to pray about what to do as a mom. I looked for verses in Proverbs to pray over my son. I was still angry about the whole thing.

Well, God waits patiently for you to ask for His help. He does not shove it at you. I read Proverbs 14:1. It says, " The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down." Needless to say, I began to cry. God pierced my heart with His love coming from this verse. Funny how every time I think someone else needs to change, God shows me how I need to change first.

I set out to find all the verses I could to pray over my children. Then, I found ones to pray over my husband and marriage. God showed me I was not doing ALL I could do. I was not building my house properly. My frustration was actually tearing my house down....and I was indeed, using my own hands to demolish it.

I am still going to search more verses to add to pray over my children and hubby.(I thought of one this morning on the way to school). Someone told me once a long time ago, that everytime you point a finger at someone else, there are three pointing back at you.

Think about that.......

2009-07-12T09:01:00.003-04:00

Book Review Time!!!

I am sitting at my desk, drinking my cinnamon coffee (second cup) and thinking about the terrific book I finished reading. Here is my review:

Deception by Randy Alcorn

Homicide detective, Ollie Chandler has seen and done it all. When a professor is murdered, Ollie follows the clues that lead him to his own department. The murderer could be any of his colleagues, even himself.

Haunted by the death of his wife and having no relationship with either of his daughters, Ollie struggles with why God lets evil happen. While Ollie is drawn into corruption and political tensions that threaten to destroy him, he vows to follow the truth and prove Ollie's First Law: "Things are often not what they appear."

This novel was gripping from page one. Ollie Chandler will go down in history as one of the most unique characters ever created! He says out loud what most of us think. His tainted view of the world through crime, has tainted his view of God. Two of his friends try to show Ollie that God loves him. They tell him to take a detectives look at the facts about Jesus and draw his own conclusions. By the end of the book, Ollie sees God's hand in his life, and decides he does need to check out the True facts.

I loved this book. I laughed out loud every few pages. Every time I thought I had it all figured out, Ollie would discover a new clue that would take me in a totally different direction. I never saw the end coming. What a great plot twist! Kudos, Mr. Alcorn. This is one author I would like to meet and find how Ollie Chandler was created.

If you love a good mystery, you will love Deception. Let me know what you think if you read it.

Enjoy!!

Count Your Blessings

2009-07-10T09:04:00.003-04:00

I`m casting my cares aside
I`m leaving my past behind
I`m setting my heart and mind on You, Jesus
I`m reaching my hand to Yours
Believing there`s so much more
Knowing that all You have in store for me is good
Is good

Today is the day
You have made
I will rejoice and be glad in it
Today is the day
You have made
I will rejoice and be glad in it
And I won`t worry about tomorrow
I`m trusting in what You say
Today is the day
(song by Lincoln Brewster)

Ok, today is cool and kind of gloomy with rain in the forecast. Are you still thanking God?
The bible says if we (His created people) don't praise Him, the rocks and trees will cry out. Can you imagine standing on the earth and listening to rocks and trees calling out praise to the Lord? Thankfully, they don't have to. I praise Him. I thank Him. I love Him. I am joyful in the many blessings He has given me...health, family, friends, work, food, clothes, car....and the list goes on forever.

There is a song from an old movie...Singing in the Rain. It is called Count Your Blessings. It speaks of counting your blessings instead of sheep when you can't sleep. When is the last time you counted your blessings?

Think about that...

Give Your Worries to God

2009-07-08T09:16:00.002-04:00

About a month ago, my pastor spoke on giving your worries to God. That God cannot do anything without faith, and if we still have hold of our worries, God's hands are tied. At the end of the service, he had us all pray together. We each told God about something we were worrying about, and we let it go.

I have a ministry at my church. It is a small, but very dedicated group. God uses us to minister to our own church as well as other churches where we perform. I told God I was worried that our group was not growing like I thought it should. Then again, who am I to presume how quickly God wanted it to grow? I gave this thought over to God and never thought about it again. It was now God's problem, not mine.

As soon as I took MY hands off of it, within two months I had members of our group tell me there were new people interested. I was enlightened. God reminded me of my prayer and how I was obedient to Him. Once I obeyed, God could "do His thang". Boy, did He.

At our informationl meeting for new people, our group went from 4 to 9!! We more than doubled. Sometimes God needs us to just step out of the way.

Do you have a worry that you are holding on to? Try giving it to God and NOT thinking about it again. Maybe He is waiting for you to let go.

Think about that....

Independance Day

2009-07-06T08:56:00.006-04:00

We all know why we have 4th of July, right? We celebrate our independance as our own country, and that we are no longer controlled by England. (I won't say who I think is controlling our country now...another time)

Thankfully, our founding fathers had vision and courage. I believe these are things severely lacking in our government today. (sorry, not going down that road)

As I was watching fireworks this weekend, my mind wondered to our soldiers in Iraq and Afghanistan. My family has been adopting soldiers for three years now. We apply for one, write letters and send care packages until they go home, then we apply for another one. We pray for that soldier, and try to be encouraging to them.

I know these men and women risk their lives everyday. Personally, I don't care if you agree with the war or not. As an American, you are required to support the people over there defending our freedoms. Regardless of why you THINK they are there, the reason is we were attacked on our own land. We lost thousands of people in Pennsylvania, DC, and New York. We are not just going to stand by and accept it.

There are many soldiers who could use some love and moral support. If you are interested in adopting one soldier, several, or a whole platoon, go to adoptaplatoon.org. The soldiers over there appreciate anything you do. They love letters and packages. As my new soldier told me, "It means a lot to know people still care about us soldiers." Now, how sad it that? They have to wonder if we still care? Shame on the people who make these men and women feel this way!!

Think about that...

Make Up Your Mind

2009-07-02T09:52:00.004-04:00

So then, because you are lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will vomit you out of My mouth.
Rev 3:16

Ok, God wants us to be for Him or not. No sitting on the fence. Do you notice yourself being one way with one set of friends, and another way with different friends? Then you are lukewarm. Not a good place to be.

Either you are a Christian or you aren't. You can't cuss and swear and drink with work people, and then be holy and reverent at church. Make up your mind. You can't have a fish on your car and then drive too fast, cutting people off, and flipping them the bird. If you do, take the fish off. You are ruining my reputation!!

If you have a Facebook page, what message are you sending? I see people I know with flair that have Jesus on one line, and cuss words and ugly stuff on the next. Shame on you. Make up your mind!

Now, mistakes are one thing. We all mess up and have to ask God (and sometimes other people) to forgive us so we can start over. But, God can't use you if you are on the fence.

This might hurt, it's not safe
But I know that I've gotta make a change
I don't care if I break,
At least I'll be feeling something
'Cause just okay is not enough
Help me fight through the nothingness of life

I don't wanna go through the motions
I don't wanna go one more day
without Your all consuming passion inside of me
I don't wanna spend my whole life asking,
"What if I had given everything,instead of going through the motions?"

No regrets, not this timeI
'm gonna let my heart defeat my mind
Let Your love make me whole
I think I'm finally feeling something
'Cause just okay is not enough
Help me fight through the nothingness of this life'

Cause I don't wanna go through the motions
I don't wanna go one more day
without Your all consuming passion inside of me
I don't wanna spend my whole life asking,
"What if I had given everything,instead of going through the motions?"
(song by Matthew West)

Think about that....

Hannah Montana

2009-07-01T08:10:00.005-04:00

And my soul shall be joyful in the LORD;It shall rejoice in His salvation
Psalm 35:9

Likewise, I say to you, there is joy in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”
Luke 15:10

These things I have spoken to you, that My joy may remain in you, and that your joy may be full. John 15:11

And the disciples were filled with joy and with the Holy Spirit.
Acts 13:52

for the kingdom of God is not eating and drinking, but righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.
Romans 14:17

Ok, I could go on for days with all the scripture that talks about joy. The bottom line is that joy does not come from money, things, or fame. This is what Miley Cyrus learned in her new movie called Hannah Montana: the Movie.

I took my 6 year old daughter to see this movie last night. We both loved it. But as Miley's character learned, happiness comes from things in life that are not things. Now, this movie is not about Jesus. No. But, it does have morals and values. There was no sex. No ugly words. No gyrating of lower body parts. It was clean and funny.

The plot of the movie was that Miley/Hannah had gotten caught up in the "wordly" side of her fame and it was changing her on the inside. Her dad took her "home" to Tennessee where she could reconnect to her family and her roots. She discovered there what joy really meant...and she realized money and fame really was an illusion.

A wise man once told me, "If you are not happy before the money, you won't be happy with the money." It is true. Think about all the lottery winners who, in three years, are right back where they started. Now, it may have to do with poverty mentality. (that is another story another time) But, buying things will not bring joy to you. Buying things will only clutter up your house. At the end of the day, things will be the same. (think of Michael Jackson)(sad)

God wants us to get joy from Him. From His word and seeking His face. And from the blessings He gives us...which are usually not things. Have you counted your blessings lately and thanked Him for them? Why not?

Think about that.

Take Me Out to the Ballgame

2009-06-30T08:19:00.005-04:00

"God will send the rain when He's ready. You need to prepare your fields to receive it."
---line from Facing the Giants

Ok, my son had an All-Star Little League- 8 and under Tournament this weekend. Boy, what a lesson it taught all of us.

Saturday, the two teams we played were bigger and better. We found out later they played kid pitch in the regular season, which means they were already a level above where our team played. They were all 8 and under, so technically they could come down to coach pitch and play. Our team was outplayed because they got discouraged. These other teams would have probably beaten the parents if we had played them. :)
As parents, we have to set the example of fair play and good sportsmanship. I saw some parents out there that did not do this. This made me sad.

Sunday, the teams were evenly matched. The teams we played were not a level ahead. Those were terrific games. Both teams scored runs, and fielded plays. As a parent, I loved it. I got to cheer my team and laugh, and generally have fun. There were still parents who took it too seriously, but I guess that is life. We tied the first game and lost in overtime. The last game we played we tied, and went into overtime and won by 2 runs. After feeling like our little guys had been kicked around all weekend, it was such a sweet victory. I knew our team had played by the rules, worked hard, and not given up. We were so happy.

On the way to the car in the parking lot, my son informed me that one of the coaches suggested they pray. So, my son and some other boys sat on the bench in the dugout and prayed. That is why we won the game!!! Had I ever thought about praying for a baseball game? No. But the kids did. I told him it was just like Facing the Giants. They used their faith to help them overcome great obstacles. God rewarded them.

We have much to learn as grown ups. Think about that.

Michael Jackson

2009-06-26T08:19:00.006-04:00

Ok, by now the whole world knows that the King of Pop has passed away. Do you know where he passed on to? If we looked at the fruit on the tree, I would have to say not to Heaven.

In the Gospels, Jesus had a rich young man come to him and ask how to have eternal life. Jesus told him to keep this commandments. The man asked which ones.

Jesus replied "If you want to be perfect, go, sell what you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow Me.” But when the young man heard that saying, he went away sorrowful, for he had great possessions. (Matt 19:21-22) Then Jesus made an interesting statement to his disciples.

Matthew 19: 23-30

Then Jesus said to His disciples, “Assuredly, I say to you that it is hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven. 24 And again I say to you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.” 25 When His disciples heard it, they were greatly astonished, saying, “Who then can be saved?” 26 But Jesus looked at them and said to them, “With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” 27 Then Peter answered and said to Him, “See, we have left all and followed You. Therefore what shall we have?” 28 So Jesus said to them, “Assuredly I say to you, that in the regeneration, when the Son of Man sits on the throne of His glory, you who have followed Me will also sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel. 29 And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife or children or lands, for My name’s sake, shall receive a hundredfold, and inherit eternal life. 30 But many who are first will be last, and the last first.

Did Jesus mean that only poor people can be saved? No. Whether He literally wanted the man to sell all his things or not, this was a heart issue. When we have nothing, we feel the need for God just to function and get our daily needs met. When we have almost as much money as God, we think we can get what we want ourselves, and we act as if we don't need God.

God wants all of our lives. He wants us to be willing to surrender everything to Him, to say Lord, here is my life...what should I do with it?

Have you surrendered to God? If not, why? What part of your life are you holding onto? Do you think you know better than God what to do with your life? That's funny when you think about it, but a lot of people are just afraid God wants to send them to a third world country.

God will change your heart to line up with His heart. You will want His will and His purpose to come to pass in your life. I pray none of you are satisfied until you fully surrender.

(I Surrender All by Clay Crosse)

If the source of my ambition is the treasure I obtain

If I measure my successes on a scale of earthly gain

If the focus of my vision is the status I attain

My accomplishments are worthless and my efforts are in vain

So I lay aside these trophies to pursue a higher crown

And should You choose somehow to use the life I willingly laydown

I surrender all the triumph for it's only by Your grace

I relinquish all the glory, I surrender all the praise

I surrender all my silent hopes and dreams

Though the price to follow costs me everything

I surrender all my human soul desires

If sacrifice requiresThat all my kingdoms fall

I surrender all

Now, you think about that.

Theory of Relativity

2009-06-25T08:47:00.004-04:00

Yes, I am actually going to talk about Einstein this morning.
E=MC(2)..it is supposed to be squared, but my keyboard doesn't have that.
Energy=mass (x) velocity of light, squared. Easy enough, right?

There are two types of energy...potential energy is an energy of position. Like if you were on top of a big hill on a roller coaster. You have the potential to go very fast if you go down the hill.

The other type of energy is kinetic. It is an energy of motion. When you go down the roller coaster hill, you are using kinetic energy because you are moving. That is why you will eventually slow down unless you go up a small hill and produce more kinetic energy.

Ok, you are wondering how this relates to your life, right? So did I...but I think of potential energy as the way God sees us and our lives. He can see the end from the beginning, kind of like the author of a book. You have to know the end so you can get your characters to do what needs to be done to get them to that place.

Well, God has a Purpose for our lives, and He guides us and directs us in that direction. Whether or not we obey and listen is up to us. God sees our potential. He knows how He made us and what special gifts He gave each of us. He knows what we can do.

I think of kinetic energy as what happens when we finally obey God and do what He asks us to do. No matter how small it is, you get a feeling of peace and joy when you obey God. That prompts us to want to obey God more. We see each time, that we can trust Him and should trust Him. God's peace is like a high I can't get anywhere else....even Starbucks.(sorry Ashley)

Once I have felt that, it makes me want more. It pushes me to do more. I begin to "move" in the direction God wants me to move. As long as I am doing God's Will in my life, my kinetic energy is ongoing. It never runs out.

In youth group, one of my friends used to say that it was as if God was standing on a mountain top and we are at the bottom. He can see farther than we can down the road and He knows what is coming...so we need to follow His directions to avoid the pitfalls He can see up ahead.

So, what kind of potential energy has God given you? Are you moving and using any kinetic energy? Why not?

Think about that.

Book Reviews

2009-06-24T08:07:00.006-04:00

Ok, for those who don't know me very well, I absolutely LOVE to read. All types of genres. So, I just chose a couple to tell you about. I have a romance for the mushy ones of you, and an adventure for those willing to take a chance.

Just Beyond the Clouds by Karen Kingsbury

Ok, I am not a romance novel person, but this novel captured my attention right from the start. This is the second in the Cody Gunner series. In Just Beyond the Clouds, Cody Gunner is still hurting after the death of his wife. Now his brother, Carl Joseph, who has Down ’s syndrome is trying to become independent. As Cody fights this change with his brother, the teacher of Carl Joseph, Elle, fights harder for his independence. The two are at odds until they both realize the connection they share. As Cody and Elle battle it out, Cody realizes this is the one woman who can teach him to love again, and see the hope Just Beyond the Clouds.

I cried, laughed, and found myself looking for a reason to sit down and read. If you like Nicolas Sparks type books; Karen Kingsbury is the Christian version of Nicolas Sparks. This book will not disappoint the romance reader.

Babylon Rising by Tim LaHaye and Greg Dinallo

This is the first in an installment of books by the creator of the Left Behind series. This series focuses on Bible prophecies that are not covered in the Left Behind books. Michael Murphy is a Biblical archaeologist teaching at a college in North Carolina. As a secret benefactor leads him to amazing Biblical finds, the danger increases—for Michael Murphy as well as those around him. Murphy seems to always end up fighting for his life. It is the age old good vs. evil, and in this case, God vs. Satan. Michael Murphy shows us that courage and truth will triumph through any test we are given in our lives.

This book is the equivalent of a Christian Indiana Jones. I read through this book in two days and ran to the library for the next one in the series. If you like action, this is THE book for you!!

If you have a book you would like me to review, please let me know. I will be doing these every few weeks. Now, go get a book and read!!! (Just don't forget to read your Bible.)

Control Is An Illusion

2009-06-23T07:37:00.004-04:00

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace,
longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law.
Galatians 5:22

But also for this very reason, giving all diligence,
add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge,
to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance,
to perseverance godliness, to godliness brotherly
kindness, and to brotherly kindness love.
2 Peter 1:5-7

Apparantly, self-control is the only kind the Bible says we have or can have. So, who is in control of the rest of our lives...well, that is our decision. We can live according to God's Word and give Him control or we can disregard all He tells us and give Satan the reigns.

One way or the other, your life will be controlled by a spiritual force.

Psalm 103:19-21 (New King James Version)
The LORD has established His throne in heaven,
And His kingdom rules over all.
Bless the LORD, you His angels,
Who excel in strength, who do His word,
Heeding the voice of His word.
Bless the LORD, all you His hosts,
You ministers of His, who do His pleasure.

The angels listen for us to pray God's Word, then they get to work to make God's purposes come to pass. If we speak against what God's Word says, the demons of Satan have fun wreaking havoc on our lives.

So, we have self-control over what actions our bodies do, what we allow our minds to think on, and the words that come out of our mouths. I could write sooo much on this. Maybe I will later. If you can, get the book Hung by the Tongue by Francis P. Martin.

Watch what you say....you are either sending the angels to flight or delighting the demons.

Think about that.

Fun Things to do With Your Children

2009-06-22T07:47:00.003-04:00

Here are some free or almost free and fun things to do with the younguns:

Free Family Film Festival-Regal Entertainment Group has movies all around the country where the kids get in free and adults are only $1. Usually there is a $1 popcorn and $1 drink. There is a G movie and a PG playing for three days out of the week. http://www.regmovies.com/nowshowing/familyfilmfestivalschedule.aspx?state=NC
Museums-all major cities have a museum of art or a museum of natural history. Admission is free and there is usually a snack bar where you can have lunch. Many of the museums have special presentations in the summer you can attend. Some have free movies outside at night, on the lawn, and they project the movies onto the side of the building. All you need is a picnic blanket or chair.
Library- your local public library always has summer events for the kids. There is a reading program, story time for the small ones, and special activities on Saturdays. Check it out.

Whatever you do this summer, remember that your children are only given to you for a short amount of time. Enjoy them while God has entrusted you with them. You are raising up mighty men and women of God.

Think about that...

Father's Day

2009-06-20T08:17:00.003-04:00

When you have children, you are constantly promoting respect for your elders. When it comes to Dad and Mom, you also promote all the things they do for you on a daily basis. Things they don't have to do, but choose to because they love you: feed you, fix you juice, make your lunch, drive you to school, etc.

This Father's Day, make sure to talk to your children about all the things Dad does that they don't even think about as important: mow the lawn, change a high lightbulb, hook up the VCR, throw baseball, take us on vacation, charge the camera batteries, work hard so we have money for food and a house.

Then, tell them what their Heavenly Father did for them: He gave His only son for us. He was sent to die and to be a sacrifice for us. Now, we can be cleansed and forgiven. Now, we have grace and mercy. Now, we have authority over the devil. Now, we will be in Heaven with our Father. Thank God for all He has done and all He continues to do. Remind them that as much as you love your children, God loves them even MORE.

Think about that.

Soldiers in Iraq

2009-06-19T08:06:00.003-04:00

I don't know if you know about Adoptaplatoon or not. It is a fabulous organization that puts regular American citizens with soldiers overseas that need a little moral support...which to me, would be all of them. My family has been adopting soldiers for several years now. We just got our third one. We send letters, cards, and care packages. Sometimes the soldiers email us back, but not often. Most of the time, you just send to them and never hear back. They are on the battle field, you know.

My son asked me why we adopted another one. I have to say I thought I had done a good job of explaining the whole thing to him, and I was upset at his attitude. Never mind that he is a child...I want him and his sister to feel like I do.

Well, our soldier, Andrew, sent us an email after receiving our first letter. I called my son to the computer and asked him to read it out loud to me. The email was thanking us for writing, thanking us for the picture my daughter made, and telling us how much it meant to him that there were people who still cared about the soldiers. He told me a little about him and his wife, and thanked me again for writing. I told my son, "That's why we still adopt soldiers." I think he understands better now.

We are the land of the free BECAUSE of the brave. Thank you to those who are serving and who have served. I salute you.

If you are interested in adopting a soldier or a whole platoon (church groups or clubs could do this) go to: adoptaplatoon.org.

Think about that.

Wii

2009-06-18T07:16:00.002-04:00

We have a Nintendo Wii. We got it for Christmas, mostly because I wanted it. I will say it is some of the best money we have ever spent. We purchased 4 Wii-motes, so the whole family can play at the same time. Even my 5 year old beat me in bowling. (sad, but true) Actually, for a while, she beat us ALL.

This is what I have noticed. The more you play, the "better" you get. At a certain point, you obtain what they call PRO status. That is when your game changes. All of a sudden, the game expects you to play better. Your "ability" to play changes in the games computer. And, when you play the computer, they put you against players at a PRO status. It's not so easy anymore.

Ok, so God does this to. Luke 12:48 says "For everyone to whom much is given, from him much will be required; and to whom much has been committed, of him they will ask the more."
Wow. So now we know Wii is biblical, right? Sorta.

I had a problem not too long ago with my business checking account. A close friend of mine reminded me to get it together. She said, "How can God bless you with more unless you show Him you can take care of little." Ouch. But thank God for real friends who can tell you the truth.

I constantly remind my children that life is not fair, so buck up and try harder. The Wii helps me teach valuable lessons...now, I can add a biblical one to that.

You think about it.

How Great (and big) is our God..

2009-06-17T08:36:00.003-04:00

Good Morning!
A buddy of mine (thanks Bethany) sent me a video to watch on YouTube. It was this guy Louis Giglio (I think) speaking at a church in Atlanta, GA. He loved science and was explaining how God made the universe. He quoted scripture from Genesis 1...God said, "Let there be light." He spoke it and it happened. Psalms 147:4 says God knows each star by name.

Well, as scientists discover stars, they name them. Mr. Giglio was showing some of the biggest stars ever discovered, telling us how big they were compared to us, and that God spoke them. God is so big, he spoke these huge stars into being.

If that weren't inspiring enough, he began to discuss our DNA code. How much code we each have in our cells, and how no two codes are alike, and if we stretched one cell's code out, it would take 3 million years to read it all. God made us each so unique.

Then, the "piece de resistance", if you will pardon my french is laminin. I did not know what this was, never heard of it. This is the glue that holds our bodies together. It keeps our cells together, keeps our organs where they should be, and keeps our skin on us. What is so amazing about this? If you look at the cell diagram of laminin (Google it to get a picture), it is in the shape of a cross. That means God gave us tiny crosses to hold us together. We have tiny crosses all over out bodies keeping us together...keeping us glued.

Think about that.
Check out this guy on Youtube
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_82lZ2PpYQE&feature=related
This is only part one of 5. It is well worth it. You will never see the universe or God the same again.

Why don't more churches do that??

2009-06-16T09:37:00.000-04:00

I have been working this week at our church VBS (vacation bible school). Some of the workers (my new buddies) were telling me about visitors they brought this past weekend. Well, our church had a guest speaker. His gift was healing. Our church prays in tongues regularly, and when we pray for each other, sometimes people fall out in the Spirit.

These new people commented to my friend about why don't more churches do this? She gave her answer, mostly they were afraid. I told her it is because people don't want to fully give their life to Christ...if they do, He will want something from them. When you completely surrender to God, He has work for you to do. He wants you to love people, and tell them about Him. He wants you to minister and give of yourself. Most people are happy with the status quo.

There is a new song out on the radio by Matthew West..the chorus goes like this:

I don't wanna go thru the motions
I don't wanna go one more day
Without your all consuming passion inside of me.
I don't wanna spend my whole life asking,
"What if I had given everything,
instead of going thru the motions?"

We all need to ask ourselves that.

2009-06-15T17:08:00.000-04:00

I don't know about you, but I do not like it when my kids complain. Usually it makes me mad. I look at their toy closet overflowing, their dressers overflowing, and their bookshelves overflowing, and I think how dare you. They are abundantly blessed and they don't appreciate it.

I think God feels that way about us too. We have clothes to wear, food to eat, cars to drive, houses to live in, and friends, but we still want more. We seem to not be satisfied. God speaks to me through my children often, and it is usually the simplest of messages.

We have plenty. We are healthy. We are loved by family and by Him. What more could we ask for? Nothing.